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Sunday, January 15, 2006

just a random thought : isn't it sad to be a clown? even if you're feeling so sad and depressed, you still have to paint a smile on your face and do stupid things to make people laugh.

anyway it's weird to hear about friendship problems between guys, cos i've almost always associated friendship problems with females. but still. aint it sad when someone feels so possesive over his friend and let jealousy ruin it all? i didn't know what to say. truly, i didn't. i mean, i felt that it was kinda X's fault cos it's not Y's fault to have other friends of his own. it's not as though Y didn't want to be his friend anymore. And i don't know. Maybe X just couldn't control his feelings so he said something harsh. so now their friendship is on the rocks? Yes i think it's partly X's fault. but!! I also empathise with him sorta. cos I know how he must have felt. Everyone knows deep down that true love doesn't mean posession or jealousy. but as humans with feelings and thoughts, it's damn hard not to feel jealous at times. but yea even though X is pretending that he doesn't mind, I can tell that this whole issue is hurting him alot. sigh guys and their ego fronts. why do they always pretend they dont care and that nothing bothers them? -_- oh well not that i had much advice for him either. is it like a guy thing to act dao and act as though nothing bothers them? -_-;;

sigh. oh well. human relationships are like an emotional battlefield sometimes. but God has given me the same message in like 5 consecutive QTs (which is a little freaky haha). It's when Jesus told his disciples that he would soon be leaving them, and that he had a new command for them: to love as he had loved them. So yes, even though I'm confused and I don't know how to handle relationships at times, I will try to love everyone around me.


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